The 'Perfect Time' Will Never Come....

The heading above is not written in a negative sense.It's just that we want you to stop waiting for the so called "perfect time" , be it to express your feelings , to start something new or to move on in life. There are many people who run away from their problems and delay in solving them. They make lame excuses such as : "This is not the right time... " . But these people, actually, are themselves not aware of that time.

Start early.... Start now.....

We often hear people saying :

•  "I'll do my work once the weekend arrives. "(though they are capable of doing the task , the same day itself)
• "I'll propose her on Valentine's Day.. I'll wait till then.. " (he might lose his chance till then)

May I ask , why to wait when you have the potential to do a task at a earlier stage?

Why to drag things and delay??

Are you saying 'you're afraid' ? Well, this may be one of the most common answer. Let me tell you, you will lead to 'NoWhere' in life , with this attitude of yours . There may be situations in your life that would have made you the way you are.. But change is required in every aspect of life. 

So why not change for your own benefit? 

Why don't you just try once to open up whenever you feel like , share your feelings , come out of hesitation?

Trust me you'll feel much ,much better and confident.

If you keep on waiting for the 'perfect day' in your life, you can never move forward. So, the next time you decide something , go for it without wasting a second even !! You never know what happens later.

"Life can leave your side any time. So do what you wish to.. Enjoy to the fullest .. !! Cuz you do not know what happens the very next moment . "

Think Before You Judge (Short Story)

A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block.  He found the boy’s father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor.
On seeing him, the father yelled, “Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger? Don’t you have any sense of responsibility?”
The doctor smiled and said, “I am sorry, I wasn’t in the hospital and I came as fast as I could after receiving the call and now, I wish you’d calm down so that I can do my work”.

“Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? If your own son dies while waiting for doctor than what will you do??” said the father angrily.  The doctor smiled again and replied, “We will do our best by God’s grace and you should also pray for your son’s healthy life”.
“Giving advises when we’re not concerned is so easy” Murmured the father.
The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy, “Thank goodness! your son is saved!” And without waiting for the father’s reply he carried on his way running by saying, “If you have any questions, ask the nurse”.

“Why is he so arrogant? He couldn’t wait some minutes so that I ask about my son’s state” Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left.  The nurse answered, tears coming down her face, “His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was at the burial when we called him for your son’s surgery.  And now that he saved your son’s life, he left running to finish his son’s burial.”

Why Isaac Newton never married?

Isaac Newton was born on 25th December , 1642, just three months after the death of his father.Newton was a natural philosopher. Newton's father was a prosperous farmer. He was born prematurely.  His mother Hannah reportedly said that he could have fit inside a quart mug (≈ 1.1 litres). When Newton was three, his mother remarried and went to live with her new husband, Rev. Smith, leaving her son in the care of his maternal grandmother. She and Rev. Smith had three children.  The young Isaac disliked his stepfather and maintained some enmity towards his mother for marrying him.

When Rev. Smith died in 1653, Isaac was ten years old and he returned to his mother's household. As his father had been a farmer, Hannah decided that Isaac should also be a farmer, and thus took him away from his school studies. He hated farming.  He spent a year away from school on the farm, at quite a critical time in his education. Later in his life, at the age of nineteen, Isaac grew very resentful of how his mother had left him when he was young.

Newton never married. Although it is impossible to verify, it is commonly believed that he died a virgin.French writer and philosopher Voltaire, who was in London at the time of Newton's funeral, claimed to have verified the fact, writing that "I have had that confirmed by the doctor and the surgeon who were with him when he died" (allegedly Newton stated on his deathbed that he was a virgin).In 1733, Voltaire publicly stated that Newton "had neither passion nor weakness; he never went near any woman".

Newton's childhood experiences such as death of his father before his birth, his mothers re-marriage to a man he did not like, etc. might had been a reason. Childhood experiences can spoil a person’s outlook on further adult relationships. But I like to believe that Isaac Newton was married to Science and to his career as a Scientist. He spent hours in his Lab and for research.

However Isaac Newton became one of the most influential scientists of all time and is regarded as a key figure in the scientific revolution.

It's not what you look at, that matters. It's what you see.

How much time do you spend judging others, making fun of others and criticizing them?When someone cuts us off in the traffic, we mumble and abuse.When we see someone wearing something from a few decades back.We say.."Oh god..she needs a makeover...!"You would definitely agree with all of these.We judge other's clothing,action and words...Judging is something we do without thinking.
But have you just realized there are times when you have cut someone off in traffic,worn outfits that weren't fabulous.

So why do we do it???

• We are insecure - This is perhaps the main reason why we judge.When we are insecure or unhappy we try to put others down.We want to feel good by making others feel bad.
• We are lonely - There is a bonding element that goes along with judging others.When we talk about others,most people gladly join us.
• We are seeking change - When we want our own lives to be different,we are quick enough to judge others lives.For example: if someone wants to be in a committed relationship and his friend gets engaged, he might whisper, "Oh,that girl is just not right for him.I don't know why they are getting married".If we are jealous of other's lives we are likely to make quick judgements.                                     
  

What happens??

• Hurts other people- It may hurt people in unexpected ways.
• Makes you feel worse about yourself- When you judge others, you feel bad and guilty later on.You feel bad of having placed such harsh judgements on others.
• Put negativity in the world- These judgements bring nothing good to the world.They bring others down and make a unhappy place to live in.
• Encourages you to judge yourself- For example- when we judge what other people wear, we would be extremely concerned about our own clothing.

Ways to stop judging:-

• Monitor your thoughts-Think about what you are thinking.
• Look for the positive-There always something positive you can find in someone or something.And of course if you can't find something nice to say, then don't say anything at all.
• Focus on your own life-Why waste time judging others.Ignore what others are doing,wearing.Think about your own life.
• Remember how it feels- Remember how it feels to be judged. AND remember how it felt the last time you judged someone.               

                                  Let's stop placing so many judgements on others...It's up to us to change..!

Happy Birthday Chilli...!!

Friendship is about bringing out the positive when everthing seems negative, being accepted for who you are, being able to pick up right where you left off...sharing,talking and laughing. Friendship is about us, and for that I'm grateful.
May your special day be surrounded with happiness, filled with laughter , wrapped with pressure, brightened
with fun, blessed with love, remembered with joy and enriched with happiness...Love you!!

           Many
                      many  
                                  happy returns of the day......
                                                      May god fulfill all your dreams.....Stay blessed!!!
Happy Bday my friend...

FRIENDS FOREVER...

Keep smiling dear!!!!

Amazing Facts - Part 3

1. Google is actually the comon name for a number with million zeroes.
2. Switching letters is called sponerism. For example , saying jag of Flapan, instead of falg of Japan.
3. The plastic things on the end of shoelaces are called 'aglets'.
4. The sound you hear when you crack your knuckles is actually the sound of nitrogen gas bubbles bursting.
5. In most watch advertisements the time displayed on the watch is 10:10 because then the arms frame the  brand of the watch (and make it look like it is smiling).

6. It cost 7 million dollars to build the Titanic and 200 million to make a film about it.
7. There are 1,792 steps to the top of Eiffel Tower.
8. It takes about 20 seconds for a red blood cell to circle the whole body.
9. Most soccer players run 7 miles in a game.
10. The only part of the body that has no blood supply is the cornea in the eye. It takes in oxygen directly from the air.

Jesus Illusion

Concentrate on the four black dots in the centre of the image below. Do this for about 30-60 seconds. Then immediately after this, look at some plane surface , a wall or a ceiling and blink your eyes. Here it is... you can see the image of Jesus in a circle.