After having made a mistake most of us deny it, get defensive,blame others and beat them.We start giving excuses. When we make an error, most of us fall into one of these- those who have a fixed mind set and assure themselves ..Damn!!! I will be never good at it...and shut the mistake completely, and there are those who view this error as a wake-up-call, identifying their mistakes and improving on the same.
In our lifetime, there's only one time to correct your mistakes and that's when you admit you are wrong. Embracing the mistake is one of the surest ways to correct your mistake. Do accept your mistakes rather than arguing and showing as if you are perfect.Only our creator is perfect and no one beside him. Take a deep breath and acknowledge your mistake. We can't always aim at being correct. Mistakes help you to learn the best. Think of trial and error learning. With no trial,there's no error and no learning. Hence mistakes imply learning a lesson.
Thomas Edison tried two thousand different elements in search for the right filament for the bulb before getting the right one. His assistant said, "All our work in vain. We learned nothing". Edison confidently replied that we have come a long way and learned a lot. We know those 2000 elements that cannot be used as a filament for the bulb.
How to accept mistakes and learn from them??
Mistakes are valuable teachers.Do not dwell on past mistakes,learn from them instead.
In our lifetime, there's only one time to correct your mistakes and that's when you admit you are wrong. Embracing the mistake is one of the surest ways to correct your mistake. Do accept your mistakes rather than arguing and showing as if you are perfect.Only our creator is perfect and no one beside him. Take a deep breath and acknowledge your mistake. We can't always aim at being correct. Mistakes help you to learn the best. Think of trial and error learning. With no trial,there's no error and no learning. Hence mistakes imply learning a lesson.
Thomas Edison tried two thousand different elements in search for the right filament for the bulb before getting the right one. His assistant said, "All our work in vain. We learned nothing". Edison confidently replied that we have come a long way and learned a lot. We know those 2000 elements that cannot be used as a filament for the bulb.
How to accept mistakes and learn from them??
- Never lie:- A lie can save you temporarily but truth revealed later or sooner will lead you into a serious trouble.
- Do not hide your feelings or problems from your parents:-They have been from what you are going through, so they will help you solve your problems.
- Accept your mistakes and promise yourself to do better next time.
- Don't cry over things like being busted by your girl/boy friend or failing in exams:-Accept it and start a new life.
- Avoid excuses or false promises:-These are very annoying.
- Make a list of your mistakes and try to change for the better.
- Ask your true friends to advice you and give you feedback.
- Don't think you are foolish when you make a mistakes:-Keep a positive attitude.
Mistakes are valuable teachers.Do not dwell on past mistakes,learn from them instead.
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